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10:52am Friday 21st November 2008
Saints were a huge part of Chris Newman’s life from first watching them in 1960 all the way through to last May. His love affair with the club was so strong he even wrote a book about Saints a few years ago. Now, though, he is one of the missing thousands – one of the stayaway fans for whom the love affair has ended. And don’t tell him he shouldn’t have turned his back on the club. In his own words, this is one fan’s story...
"Last weekend I returned to the fold for the Saints v Wolves clash. I’ll say straight away it was a one off.
I wasn’t at all impressed, to say the least, with the return to SFC by the current Lowe & Wilde regime.
Especially after the now departed Nigel Pearson’s magnificent effort, in such a short space of time, keeping a somewhat uninspired Saints squad in the Championship.
This after the club had already fallen out of the Premiership, several managers and three boards ago.
I decided that was enough for me. Recent history has not given Saints fans the necessary entertainment that the team mostly provided me with since boyhood.
The value for money has not been there either.
Why should I continue to spend money I don’t really have as I make my way in semi retirement on something I was no longer enjoying?
RESENTFUL
I also resent those blinkered zealot-like Saints followers both old and new, who try to tell us the so called "ranting minority" stop-aways (about 14,000 of us actually) how we should spend our hard-earned cash.
I wouldn’t dream of telling them how to spend their’s. Other than maybe to recommend membership of the "Flat Earth Society".
For in my own humble view, their logic in pontificating about continuing to support a once great – but now unrecognisable institution – is in the same denial league. Or, at best, misguided loyalty.
Sometimes, though, fate takes an unexpected hand.
By the summer, I was back at St Mary’s on a training course tied in with my present job. So technically my own particular stadium exile didn’t last too long.
Ah, but that wasn’t actually attending a match, was it? Not even the lure of Glasgow Celtic, for Claus Lundekvam’s testimonial, could tempt me.
Then to cap it all, I go and win two tickets for the Wolves clash.
Yes indeed, a much bigger crowd was at St Mary’s than of late, but that was boosted by a Wolves following that has always throughout my 48 years following professional football been of the more fanatical variety.
Wolves’ pedigree is, in fact, massive. A club laden with various honours and the first to pioneer the facing of top European clubsin a series of matches during the 1950s that became the catalyst for what these days is known as the Champions League.
Early in this game, today’s Wolves side threatened to copy those great old timers and run riot through a promising but quite obviously naive bunch of Saints youngsters.
To Saints’ credit they battled hard and kept trying to play decent football throughout, looking neat in their approach work.
There is though, no cutting edge. The loan – and surely certain eventual sale of Stern John – will not help whatsoever.
The defence seems only ever one mistake short of another mess up and if it was not for keeper Kelvin Davis (who is now justifying what we all thought was George Burley’s misplaced faith) Saints would be rock bottom.
I feel sorry for Jan Poortvliet, it’s not really his fault. He just doesn’t have the material at this moment in time.
Meanwhile I’ll continue going to the Silverlake where those Spitfires, Eastleigh, have served up some cracking home entertainment this season.
You couldn’t wish to see a more thrilling game than the recent storm-lashed victory over Hampton and Richmond or the 3-3 thriller with Hayes and Yeading.
Neither have I forgotten the visit of the truly loyal support of a club straight out of football folklore, Newport County.
Once a football league side themselves, yet still well followed, especially away. Even this far south, for an evening game.
FANTASTIC PLAYERS
Non league is so much more enjoyable. Much like the pro game used to be.
Sorry Saints, you were once a fine club, who boasted some fantastic players.
It would be hard to better the CV ‘playing squad wise’ down through the years for a club of your size. Yes, it was nice knowing you. But these days I know you not.
For despite the crowd trying to lift the young side on occasions, I could have been at any similar stadium in the country, other than on my old stomping ground.
For the fabled ‘Spirit of Southampton’ has disappeared somewhere in the ether. That, in my estimation, has nothing whatsoever to do with missing fans.
For those that accuse us should look to what drove us away in the first place."
sainthog7, southampton says...
11:55am Fri 21 Nov 08
Help The Saints, Southampton says...
12:16pm Fri 21 Nov 08
John of Bassett, Southampton says...
12:18pm Fri 21 Nov 08
Saint_John, Bassett says...
12:18pm Fri 21 Nov 08
UTS, says...
12:36pm Fri 21 Nov 08
MikeC, Southampton says...
1:04pm Fri 21 Nov 08
UTS wrote:And I'm to blame as well then - cos I'm going to keep going and keep supporting.
Well said Chris Newman ! The majority of dissullioned fans think the same as you. Lowe is strangling this club to death. He has stopped the alternative and now is running the club into the ground. Fans who have had season tickets for decades are now walking away. Dirty Judas Michael Wilde is to blame as well for his personal interests rather than the clubs. Scared to death his share value will go up in smoke. The Daily Echo newspaper are also to blame for sucking Wildes plums way above the norm. Lowe is now facing less slack from the bank due to his arrogant personal interest. Mr Banker was happier with Leon Crouch and others in charge. 100% FACT Just ask Mr Fry at Barclays in Reading :)
derry, derry says...
1:12pm Fri 21 Nov 08
Saint_John, Bassett says...
1:23pm Fri 21 Nov 08
pompeydave wrote:I wouldn't say too much otherwise we will start to talk about the 2,731 who turned up for a 1st team fixture at FP in Sept 2000.
Just typical of your so called suporters, blimy if Pompey supporters had the same fragile attitude you we would have folded years ago !
Help The Saints, Southampton says...
1:34pm Fri 21 Nov 08
derry wrote:You are right we should stop banging on about our boycott.......the 14,000 or so empty seats each home game is statement enough. Oh and of course I stay away fans cant even be blamed for the boo'ing that happens at the games.....because we aren't even there. Could it be that the "true fans" are possibly having a negative affect on the players. Of course not that would be a
I have been going since 1954. It appears that people like to support a winning team or in the case of the Premier, watch the opposition. This present team would see off Eastleigh any day of the week. But then they win a few games. Those that don't want to go, fine, don't go. But I wish they would stop banging on about their boycott. I wish the devisive Rupert Lowe would disappear,it isn't going to happen soon. If everybody who is boycotting did something about it, like demonstrating just once outside SMS at 3.30 on a Game day It would demonstrate the numbers or possibly the lack of numbers of those boycotting. It won't happen.
St.Yorkie, Pocklington says...
1:42pm Fri 21 Nov 08
SFC4EVA, Southampton says...
1:44pm Fri 21 Nov 08
sainth, southampton says...
1:44pm Fri 21 Nov 08
juliusevola, Southampton says...
1:50pm Fri 21 Nov 08
loweout@hotmail.co.uk, St. Marys says...
2:02pm Fri 21 Nov 08
londonsaint, Bromley says...
2:37pm Fri 21 Nov 08
UTS, says...
2:57pm Fri 21 Nov 08
MikeC wrote:Well if you reckon to blame then thats your issue.
UTS wrote: Well said Chris Newman ! The majority of dissullioned fans think the same as you. Lowe is strangling this club to death. He has stopped the alternative and now is running the club into the ground. Fans who have had season tickets for decades are now walking away. Dirty Judas Michael Wilde is to blame as well for his personal interests rather than the clubs. Scared to death his share value will go up in smoke. The Daily Echo newspaper are also to blame for sucking Wildes plums way above the norm. Lowe is now facing less slack from the bank due to his arrogant personal interest. Mr Banker was happier with Leon Crouch and others in charge. 100% FACT Just ask Mr Fry at Barclays in Reading :)And I'm to blame as well then - cos I'm going to keep going and keep supporting. Nice artcle by Chris justifying his own decision - but he always was more intested in the sound of his own opinions than the issues he was writing about.
SaintPaul, Devon says...
3:04pm Fri 21 Nov 08
Portswood Pete, Portswood says...
3:24pm Fri 21 Nov 08
londonsaint, Bromley says...
3:40pm Fri 21 Nov 08
St.Yorkie, Pocklington says...
3:48pm Fri 21 Nov 08
Rudd Gillett, Saffhampton says...
3:50pm Fri 21 Nov 08
damien thorn, west end says...
3:50pm Fri 21 Nov 08
londonsaint, Bromley says...
4:10pm Fri 21 Nov 08
TedStripes, Southampton says...
4:22pm Fri 21 Nov 08
Derek of Holbury, Holbury says...
5:05pm Fri 21 Nov 08
Hatman, Basingstoke says...
5:11pm Fri 21 Nov 08
LCEng, says...
5:14pm Fri 21 Nov 08
UTS wrote:I am very concerned you are quoting names from a Bank, MP
Well said Chris Newman ! The majority of dissullioned fans think the same as you. Lowe is strangling this club to death. He has stopped the alternative and now is running the club into the ground. Fans who have had season tickets for decades are now walking away. Dirty Judas Michael Wilde is to blame as well for his personal interests rather than the clubs. Scared to death his share value will go up in smoke. The Daily Echo newspaper are also to blame for sucking Wildes plums way above the norm. Lowe is now facing less slack from the bank due to his arrogant personal interest. Mr Banker was happier with Leon Crouch and others in charge. 100% FACT Just ask Mr Fry at Barclays in Reading :)
sainth, southampton says...
5:23pm Fri 21 Nov 08
TedStripes wrote:Well said that man. I have watched more of Saints in the past few seasons at St.Marys than I did when we were in the prem, the reason? I follow Saints. I cannot wait to see the back of L*** and hate what he has done to our club but I follow Southampton Football Club. The last time I looked it was still called this and not called R***** L*** Football Club. Get behind the lads and no more articles about self opionated wind bags who want nothing else but to see themselves in the local rag
"Yes indeed, a much bigger crowd was at St Mary’s than of late, but that was boosted by a Wolves following that has always throughout my 48 years following professional football been of the more fanatical variety." Dear Mr Newman Are you sure you went to SMS and not to West Quay by mistake? Fanatical my rear end!!! Church mice more like, only Pomp*y were quieter than them. I am amused at this column headed Where has the fabled spirit of Southampton gone. My answer is nowhere, I and 14K other still have the spirit and we will give it our all to support our young boys. They did not ask to be in the position they find themselves but are giving 110% + to get out of it. Your club is in your heart you just can`t give it up, or am I a bit more passionate about the Saints than some. My conclusion is that if you wish to stay away please do not come back. FAIR WEATHER FAN Ted Stripes Rant Over.
robhythe, Southampton says...
5:25pm Fri 21 Nov 08
Saints4Eva, Fair Oak says...
5:50pm Fri 21 Nov 08
UTS, says...
6:24pm Fri 21 Nov 08
Condor Man, Southampton says...
6:30pm Fri 21 Nov 08
Strasser, SOUTHAMPTON says...
6:48pm Fri 21 Nov 08
Southseachris, Southsea says...
6:56pm Fri 21 Nov 08
UTS, says...
7:24pm Fri 21 Nov 08
Strasser wrote:The only 'loser' around here is you with comments like that.
This so called "fan" is not "hardcore" or he would still be going to support Saints. Supporters follow thier club through thick and thin.You dont drop your club if they are going through a bad patch. If he really has supported Saints for 30 years it shows his brain is going if he thinks this our worst times.Typical old **** that looks at the past through rose tinted spectacles. Never mind Chris you can spend your free time sitting on a bar stool drinking by yourself and talking about the good old days. Loser.
TedStripes, Southampton says...
8:23pm Fri 21 Nov 08
Rudd Gillett, Saffhampton says...
8:55pm Fri 21 Nov 08
ssherbie28, romsey says...
9:15pm Fri 21 Nov 08
ssherbie28, romsey says...
9:25pm Fri 21 Nov 08
vigor, southampton says...
9:36pm Fri 21 Nov 08
Costa Baz, Southampton says...
9:55pm Fri 21 Nov 08
John of Bassett, Southampton says...
11:02pm Fri 21 Nov 08
UTS, says...
11:34pm Fri 21 Nov 08
Saint_John, Bassett says...
8:45am Sat 22 Nov 08
Portswood Pete, Portswood says...
9:16am Sat 22 Nov 08
the third hardest man in sholing, southampton says...
10:06am Sat 22 Nov 08
davet1, ryde says...
11:37am Sat 22 Nov 08
davet1, ryde says...
11:40am Sat 22 Nov 08
UTS, says...
2:43pm Sat 22 Nov 08
the third hardest man in sholing wrote:Yes 45 yrs of watching Saints which will include a number of relegations and last saviours.
Who is this Newman geezer?? If he isnt interested anymore so what??? I enjoy watching Saints regardless of their league position but like many others there have been times when ive lost interest. One thing i wouldnt do though is spout off to the Echo about it. Im sure not many of these stay away supporters would admit it,but reading what he said you cant help but feel because they have decided not to go any more,they secretly enjoy our demise.It says something about a crap part of human nature,which is to enjoy the downfall of others.....total tosser.
UTS, says...
2:49pm Sat 22 Nov 08
davet1 wrote:Stay aways ???
Its no wonder were not winning these home games with these so called "stay away fans",not coming they were quite happy to come when times were good ie fa cup prem football etc.So we have Rupert in charge,it looks like were stuck with him .So at the end of the day your either a saints supporter or not ,if half of those fairweathers came, back maybe we could create some of the atmosphere that was present against wolves second half.If your not going to come please dont even comment on saints as you are being negative without any visible signs of support.Fair enough if youve been week in and out,at least were contributing ,just remember this when if saints ever make it back to the prem ."watch the 32000 come back then,all true fans obviously LOL".
Costa Baz, Southampton says...
4:03pm Sat 22 Nov 08
John of Bassett wrote:If you're a frequent visitor to this site you will realise the abuse was an unusual slip for me, and not my proudest moment, but it's been said and I stand by it.
Hi Baz - nice to hear from you. If your arguments are weak, resort to abuse? Good plan. Helpful. Constructive. Likely to unite the fan-base. Likely to help the team. Keep up the good work.
Portswood Pete, Portswood says...
4:59pm Sat 22 Nov 08
IanRRR, N Baddesley says...
6:19pm Sat 22 Nov 08
miltonarchers, Winchester says...
6:39pm Sat 22 Nov 08
Costa Baz wrote:Is Costa Baz posting this cr@p for any of tyhe following reasons
Derek of Holbury, Holbury says... 1:22pm Thu 20 Nov 08 Would like to ask all posters if they can put aside personal grievances and viewpoints about how the Lowe regime may or may not be dividing the fans, and answer one question for me. Is Derek on this forum so frequently and at all hours of the day because:- a) He is totally obsessed with seeing his name on here? b) He has an addictive personality and cannot stop himself from visting the site? c) He enjoys winding people up? d) He is single? e) If he's not single he's not allowed to have an opinion at home? f) He is being paid to be on here? g) He has too much spare time? h) He's unemployed? i) If he's not unemployed he should be as he spends so much time on here he wouldn't be worth employing? j) He actually thinks anyone else cares about his frequently overstated opinions? k) He's a tw@t? l) All the above? m) Other? Feel free to add any others as you see fit. ps Is John of Bassett his brother?
doctorsaint, Hedge End says...
8:15pm Sat 22 Nov 08
the third hardest man in sholing, southampton says...
8:19pm Sat 22 Nov 08
UTS wrote:A PROPER SAINTS FAN WHO`S JUST SUNG HIS HEART OUT AT THE READING GAME YOU STUPID BACKSTABBING WEASLEBURGER
the third hardest man in sholing wrote: Who is this Newman geezer?? If he isnt interested anymore so what??? I enjoy watching Saints regardless of their league position but like many others there have been times when ive lost interest. One thing i wouldnt do though is spout off to the Echo about it. Im sure not many of these stay away supporters would admit it,but reading what he said you cant help but feel because they have decided not to go any more,they secretly enjoy our demise.It says something about a crap part of human nature,which is to enjoy the downfall of others.....total tosser.Yes 45 yrs of watching Saints which will include a number of relegations and last saviours. He is a total 'tosser' for that etc Which makes you ?
derek fo holbury, holbury says...
8:37pm Sat 22 Nov 08
the third hardest man in sholing, southampton says...
9:21pm Sat 22 Nov 08
derek fo holbury wrote:fair play to you Derek mate,you are a true supporter,dont let the weasles get you down.
I wont give Costa Baz the joy of seeing me responding in an aggressive way, because that is what his sort thrive on. I think he is a nasty little piece of work who is in need of help. I also believe he is the kind of person who is guilty of acts of road rage because he would be able to be aggressive in the comparitive safety of his car, just as he is able to dish out the same sort of stuff as a faceless wonder on this site. No doubt (if you were even around then) you would have folowed the Milton boot boys and done what the big boys did without ever once questioning why you did it. He perpetually condemns me for criticising others for their comments, again I ask him to show me where I do this. I believed this site was for people to make comments and give views on SFC so that other like minded folk could respond with their opinions and views. This way hopefully a debate could be set up with reasonable minded fans to discuss their various viewpoints. I did not know people other than Lowe haters would not be welcome. How this man would have us believe his last post was a slip and he is never normally abusive is beyond me. Listen mate, the aggression, lack of feeling and sheer distase displayed in that post was a disgrace and you should be ashamed. I will answer only the questions that I feel are worth wasting my time on, and the remaining ones are so deplorable (even by your standards) to make me suggest you have now sunk to an alltime low. You are beneath contempt. a) - Seeing my name on this site does not give me any buzz. As I said - When I see fit I will make an observation or comment and I then enjoy the banter with other fans. I will also on occasions challenge anyone who I feel is talking rubbish or makes statements they can not substanciate with cold hard facts. This is why we have crossed swords so often (and I have to add that you also appear with some frequency on this site)and I still await answers to the questions I have asked you several times. Every time I mention this, rather than simply just answering me, you come back with some aggression, and then accuse me of not answering your questions. A bit childish isn't it. b) - An addictive personality ?? I think you will find is that if I do have an addictive personality it means that people are addicted to my personaility, and I cannot believe that is what you really mean is it. I think what you do mean is that you feel I am addicted to this site. Absolutely rubbish. I very much enjoy the swapping of views/information and tales with other fans - is that a problem for you? The only time I do not enjoy it is when I have people slagging me off for no real reason or making accusations about me without foundation. c) - My intention is not to wind people up although it does seem easy to do it to you. All I have to do apparently is just write anything on this site, and you will find something to slate me for. d) - no I am not single - sadly I am recently widowed. Feel good? The rest of the rubbish is obviously the product of a warped mind and does not deserve any response. Well done, because you will now see the end of me. I will not get drawn again into your black world of grief and misunderstanding. No doubt you will have a field day now as the the reality sinks in, and mark this up as a personal victory. So be it. I do however expect your usual post with some old tosh about being the poor little soul who has been offened so often by me. I will not respond to any more of your poisoned rants little man, but my conscience is clear. Do you even have one ??
The Exiled Saint, NEWPORT/Salop says...
1:29pm Sun 23 Nov 08
Costa Baz, Southampton says...
6:23pm Sun 23 Nov 08
the third hardest man in sholing wrote:As I said, hypocrite. "I wont give Costa Baz the joy of seeing me responding in an aggressive way" followed by aggressive speculative comments, that lack foundation and truth.
derek fo holbury wrote: I wont give Costa Baz the joy of seeing me responding in an aggressive way, because that is what his sort thrive on. I think he is a nasty little piece of work who is in need of help. I also believe he is the kind of person who is guilty of acts of road rage because he would be able to be aggressive in the comparitive safety of his car, just as he is able to dish out the same sort of stuff as a faceless wonder on this site. No doubt (if you were even around then) you would have folowed the Milton boot boys and done what the big boys did without ever once questioning why you did it. He perpetually condemns me for criticising others for their comments, again I ask him to show me where I do this. I believed this site was for people to make comments and give views on SFC so that other like minded folk could respond with their opinions and views. This way hopefully a debate could be set up with reasonable minded fans to discuss their various viewpoints. I did not know people other than Lowe haters would not be welcome. How this man would have us believe his last post was a slip and he is never normally abusive is beyond me. Listen mate, the aggression, lack of feeling and sheer distase displayed in that post was a disgrace and you should be ashamed. I will answer only the questions that I feel are worth wasting my time on, and the remaining ones are so deplorable (even by your standards) to make me suggest you have now sunk to an alltime low. You are beneath contempt. a) - Seeing my name on this site does not give me any buzz. As I said - When I see fit I will make an observation or comment and I then enjoy the banter with other fans. I will also on occasions challenge anyone who I feel is talking rubbish or makes statements they can not substanciate with cold hard facts. This is why we have crossed swords so often (and I have to add that you also appear with some frequency on this site)and I still await answers to the questions I have asked you several times. Every time I mention this, rather than simply just answering me, you come back with some aggression, and then accuse me of not answering your questions. A bit childish isn't it. b) - An addictive personality ?? I think you will find is that if I do have an addictive personality it means that people are addicted to my personaility, and I cannot believe that is what you really mean is it. I think what you do mean is that you feel I am addicted to this site. Absolutely rubbish. I very much enjoy the swapping of views/information and tales with other fans - is that a problem for you? The only time I do not enjoy it is when I have people slagging me off for no real reason or making accusations about me without foundation. c) - My intention is not to wind people up although it does seem easy to do it to you. All I have to do apparently is just write anything on this site, and you will find something to slate me for. d) - no I am not single - sadly I am recently widowed. Feel good? The rest of the rubbish is obviously the product of a warped mind and does not deserve any response. Well done, because you will now see the end of me. I will not get drawn again into your black world of grief and misunderstanding. No doubt you will have a field day now as the the reality sinks in, and mark this up as a personal victory. So be it. I do however expect your usual post with some old tosh about being the poor little soul who has been offened so often by me. I will not respond to any more of your poisoned rants little man, but my conscience is clear. Do you even have one ??fair play to you Derek mate,you are a true supporter,dont let the weasles get you down.
derek fo holbury, holbury says...
10:56pm Sun 23 Nov 08
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Major Sir Jerry Pending, Ward 10 says...
11:47am Fri 21 Nov 08
I don't trust or like Rupert Lowe but anyone who thinks that another chairman would not take exactly the same steps to save money is living in cloud cuckoo land. There are only two alternatives to what Rupert Lowe & Co are currently doing: (i) Bankruptcy and Admisitration and (ii) a takeover by someone with mega bucks to invest. That means that in the absence of (ii) there is no real alternative!
So Saints fans - get down to St Mary's and support the team (not Rupert Lowe)for 90 minutes and see how they respond. The second half against Wolves showed just what a difference the full vocal support of the fans can make to a team's performance!! 45 minutes of the best football played by a Saints team since the days of WGS so get down there and do your bit!